Conversation, Jesus, and Vulnerable Enough to Be Wrong

I could sit and talk with my husband about Jesus, grace, or the struggles of life for hours.

Do you have anyone like that in your life?

I think we all need at least one person we can spontaneously talk to about Scripture, about life.

Not to get all the theology right. Not with an agenda. Not to fill in our Bible study books, but to just talk.

I do love that my husband can answer my questions, find me good resources, and correct my rash heretical moments. Don’t get me wrong, being married to a pastor has its perks.

I love him more though, because he is safe.

I love him because he loves Jesus.

I love him because he listens and shares and dreams and puts a manly spin on the world that I would miss otherwise. I love him because he is vulnerable enough not to know it all, but desires to go deeper and learn more, every time.

It’s important to have places and people in our life we can be wrong with. We need people to wander around conversation with. People who can point out our issues, not because they want to be right, rather because you’re having a discussion and that’s what discussion looks like – a volley, a banter, an opening of minds and hearts.

The best part about doing this around the Bible is that the Bible is always right! The Bible holds Truth in Love in perfection, so we have somewhere to go to figure this life out…together.

What would life look like without genuine discussion?





Really, many, many spaces and places we find ourselves today.

So, Dave and I invite you into our Scripture conversation in two short and thought-provoking episodes connected to the I Love My Shepherd and Grafted Heart Advent series –

Above All Names

Check out the two episodes below –

Above All Names: Old Testament

Above All Names: New Testament

Here are all the links you need for the Advent series:

Above All Names Advent Devotion PDF
Above All Names Printable Images
Above All Names Advent Reading and Writing Plan

Remember, all the devos and podcasts can be found right here on and each day of Advent! Subscribe to the blog to get them in your inbox each day. The Podcast can be found on the Podcast Page, iTunes, or Stitcher as they are released.

Who can you be vulnerable with enough to be wrong sometimes, to have real and meaningful discussion, to share a moment of safety in a crazy unsafe world?

Looking to Advent (Above All Names)

I have a special kind of love for a room lit by only twinkling Christmas lights.

The ambiance created by those lights just weeps with hope. Many of us connect it to fond family memories, a moment of peace and tranquility, and an eager anticipation for what’s to come.

That really sums up the whole season of Advent – eager expectation, hope, a little extra peace in this trouble-filled world.

This year we’d like to help you feed on that peace and hope that is only found in the One who came for each of us, to take a tiny moment each day to be satisfied with all that He is.

Above All Names includes very short devotions for each day for individual use, as a family, or use for your group or church. The entire series can be used electronically or can be printed.

  • Read the devotion on the blog or get it in your email inbox by subscribing to I Love My Shepherd. The subscription field is on the right side of the screen on desktop and near the bottom of the scrolling home screen on mobile.
  • Share each image, or just your favorites, on social media to add Hope to everyone’s newsfeed this Advent.
  • Print the Above All Names images and use as tree ornaments, a simple bunting to hang, reminders around the house or work or anywhere else, as notes to a friend, a Christmas card insert, etc.
  • Use the Above All Names Scripture Reading and/or Writing Plan if you’d like a little bit more to add to your Advent reflection time.

Here’s some ideas for using and sharing:

Here’s all the links you need:

Above All Names Advent Devotion PDF
Above All Names Printable Images
Above All Names Advent Reading and Writing Plan

Freedom from Identity: Swings, Freedom, and Touching the Sky (Chasing Freedom 2:1)

When I was 8 years old, all I wanted to do was swing.

I ran to the swings on the playground when the recess bell rang. I spent hours seeing how high I could go on my swing set at home. When I was sad, I let the swing rock me gently.  When I was happy, I imagined I could swing to reach up and touch a cloud and grab it, just for the joy of it. When I was bored, I imagined that the swing was an airplane, taking me on travels far and wide.

When I sat on a swing, I was free.

When I sat on a swing, the world was lovely.

Then I started to grow up, and there was less recess and more responsibilities.

I looked around the world and instead of seeing lovely, I saw loneliness. I saw disconnection. Worse than anything, I saw prejudice and I saw hate. I saw people excluded because of their race, or because of what part of town they lived in. I had friends who were talked down to, or who talked down to others, because they weren’t part of “the cool kids.”

The swing couldn’t bring the same relief. Hate, in particular prejudice, is a weight too heavy for any child’s heart to bear.

Paul felt the weight of prejudice, on behalf of the Galatians too.

Read Galatians 2:1-6 and see if you can identify all the “players” in the story Paul recounts:

Then after fourteen years I went up again to Jerusalem with Barnabas, taking Titus along with me. I went up because of a revelation and set before them (though privately before those who seemed influential) the gospel that I proclaim among the Gentiles, in order to make sure I was not running or had not run in vain. But even Titus, who was with me, was not forced to be circumcised, though he was a Greek. Yet because of false brothers secretly brought in—who slipped in to spy out our freedom that we have in Christ Jesus, so that they might bring us into slavery— to them we did not yield in submission even for a moment, so that the truth of the gospel might be preserved for you. And from those who seemed to be influential (what they were makes no difference to me; God shows no partiality)—those, I say, who seemed influential added nothing to me. 

Except that this account was all too real. Imagine Paul’s struggle. Notice how many times he uses the words we, us, and our. These were people he was deeply connected to.

Sometimes,  because many of us live in a free country, we often forget that we are easily enslaved. We become so entrapped by our “identities”- the particular groups we are in, the heritage we have, our personal individuality – that we miss that these things can wrap themselves around our throats and choke the life out of us.

The Judaizers wanted the Gentile believers to be circumcised, to be branded with Israel as Jewish converts, before they could be considered “real believers.”

Notice how many things I have put in quotation marks so far in this study post! One of Paul’s lessons throughout the book of Galatians is this:

These aren’t even real things! They are just things we throw our identities in. They may look and feel real to us, but at best they are abstract ideas, race, cultural heritage, cliques, and groups, and at worst they only stand to separate us from who we are together…

Created Children of God.

That is our identity.

We have one identity and one identity alone worth reporting – who the Gospel of Christ Jesus has made us.

Free. Loved. Alive. Worthy. Held.

And as Paul says, now we go about preserving that Gospel so that everyone would know that freedom. Christ Jesus came to save sinners. The last time I checked, that was every single one of us.

Our hearts would burst out of us if we didn’t get to tell them about His great love – whether circumcised or uncircumcised, wearing boxer briefs or girly underwear, eating burgers or grape leaves, black, white, or pink with flamingo wings. I say that tongue in cheek, but

who, who would we want to miss Him?

Not one.

Knowing Jesus – it’s like sitting on a swing, as the wind rushes through your ears, hair flying, heart pounding, feet almost touching the skies where the Most High dwells, catching a cloud, thanking Him for every day we can live a little bit freer than the last, because of His cross.

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Discussion questions:

What was your favorite thing to do at recess when you were a kid?

What “identities” have you claimed or wanted in your life- ethnic, racial, team related, groups, etc.?

What is it about our identities in Christ that surpasses all that other stuff? Why is the impact so huge?

How have you seen Christ cross ethnic, cultural, racial, and other divides?